diff --git a/src/roster_window.py b/src/roster_window.py
index 57ab467ed..9ccf97344 100644
--- a/src/roster_window.py
+++ b/src/roster_window.py
@@ -2253,7 +2253,8 @@ _('If "%s" accepts this request you will know his or her status.') % jid)
 		if not ctrl:
 			# if not, if message comes from highest prio, get control or open one
 			# without resource
-			if highest_contact and contact.resource == highest_contact.resource:
+			if highest_contact and contact.resource == highest_contact.resource \
+			and not jid == gajim.get_jid_from_account(account):
 				ctrl = gajim.interface.msg_win_mgr.get_control(jid, account)
 				fjid = jid
 				resource_for_chat = None